Monday, February 20, 2012

Om Namah Shivaya

'In Love (devotion), even an object gains life. Stones speak to you, the Sun, the Moon and the whole Creation become alive and Divine.' ~ Sri Sri Ravishankar

Today is Mahashivaratri. An auspicious day in the Hindu calendar, when the transcendental principal infuses with the mind, body and speech. Shiva on the one hand, is the embodiment of love, beauty, playfulness and innocence, while on the other is the ruthless destroyer! One that is easily angered, and the one that destroys/changes all that which needs to be changed. Such amazing co-existence of these apparent contradictions...

Today, while sitting for Puja, I remarked to Urvi that it was a pity we did not have a Shiv lingam at home. So Urvi tells me she has an idea! She goes downstairs and finds a stone, roughly the shape of a lingam, then she washes and scrubs it clean. She then paints 3 parallel lines on it with sandalwood paste, and puts a red dot in the center with the kumkum paste, and hands it to me. 'Mamma, there you go,' she says :)

We then decorated it with flowers and bel leaves, poured water on it and chanted 'Om Namah Shivaya'.

I think our Shiva is feeling rather pampered :)

Friday, February 17, 2012

Conversations

Here are some snippets of conversations I've had with Urvi in the recent past:

The Logician:

Urvi: Mamma, why do schools take admission tests?
Me: They don't have place to take all the children who apply. They want to choose the very best, hence the test.
Urvi: But that doesn't make sense!
Me: Why?
Urvi: The ones who did badly are the ones who need to learn, isn't it?

The Brat:

Urvi: Mamma, can I guide you while you give me the oil massage?
Me: Umm...okay...
Urvi: Okay, now close your eyes, and take a deep breath innnn...and relaxxx. Now take your attention to the top of my head, slowly and gently massage my scalp... And relaxxx...Let go all your efforts...

The Philosopher:

Urvi: Just once I'd like to see superheroes fail!
Me: Huh?! What do you mean?
Urvi: Why does Chhota Bheem have to win every contest, every fight? It is alright to come second once in a while, isn't it?
Me: Yes, of course.
Urvi: I mean, he'd still be Chhota Bheem if he came second or even last...

The Observer:

Urvi: Mamma, have you noticed there are so many stray dogs in the (Art of Living) ashram?
Me: Yes.
Urvi: Have you noticed they don't bark?
Me: Hmm...I believe you are right. Why do you think that is?
Urvi: Oh its probably because of the bhajans and the meditations...

The Goal-Setter:

Teacher: Urvi, what is your aim in life?
Urvi: To never grow up!

Friday, February 10, 2012

Minuet in G

This video has been lying on my laptop for over 3 months. Yes, I have been characteristically lazy. This was recorded during a practice session with Urvi's teacher, Mr Washington, who is on the piano.

Thursday, December 01, 2011

PaperArtz, GOONJ, Twinklers

These are 3 NGOs we have interacted with recently.

PaperArtz: As a child, I always painted cards for birthdays and holidays. While they did not look professional like printed greeting cards, they had a personal touch. Even now, when I visit my older relatives, they will often fish out a card I had drawn for them years ago, to show my daughter :)

As far as possible, I make Urvi draw greeting cards, too. And PaperArtz made our job easier!

It is a unique initiative, where your artwork is printed on a set of 12 greeting cards, which you could now share with friends and family. They have tied up with several schools in Bangalore (including Urvi's) where a part of the profits from the greeting cards thus sold, are used to support local charities.


This is Urvi's contribution for our holiday card this year.

To see how you can get your artwork printed, or how you can support them, visit the website, http://paperartz.org/


GOONJ: This is an award winning NGO doing absolutely fantastic work at the grass-root level. One of their many initiatives is 'Vastra-Samman', providing clothing for every man, woman and child on the street. Unlike most other NGOs who will take only wearable clothes in good condition, GOONJ will take just about anything. Even scrap clothes will be re-stitched and put to good use.

We recently organized a clothes collection drive for GOONJ in our community. The response was overwhelming. The effort, among other things, gave me an opportunity to meet many of my neighbours for the first time, and I feel fortunate to be part of a community with such wonderful, generous and conscientious people. To know more about GOONJ and how you can organize a similar drive in your area, visit their website www.goonj.org. They have also tied up with Pantaloons where you can drop off your old clothes in any of their showrooms in India.

Twinklers Public School
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Another social initiative taken up by our community is selling of old newspaper, and using the money thus generated to fund local charities. The children of our community are most enthusiastic about this project, and once every 3 months, you will find a host of them running around, ringing doorbells and carrying heaps of newspaper for this purpose. In the last 1 year, we have managed to generate Rs 54,000/- with this effort alone!! The money has been used to support many local charities, from slum schools to old age homes. We prefer not to donate in cash, so we generally visit the charity and find out what their requirements are.

On one such visit, I went to Twinklers Public School, run by the Samvrudhi Trust. This is a small orphanage school in JP Nagar, Bangalore, where about 70 children are receiving free boarding and education.



It is a very nice set-up with small classrooms and volunteer teachers. I was especially impressed with the quality of the work done in class. In the higher grades (VI and VII) they do not have more than 2 or 3 students, but the Principal, Ms Sunitha does not want to send these children to the free government school, where she knows the quality of education would be far below standards. As always, the main problem with running such schools remains funding and availability of volunteer teachers. If you know of anyone who is willing to volunteer, or can support the school in any way, do pass on the information.

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Nine!

OMG, that's halfway to 18!! AAAAhhhhhhhh!!

Urvi with her new bike on her b'day :)

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Fancy hats

November 14th is Childrens' Day in India.

As part of the day-long celebrations in Urvi's school, there was a 'fancy hat' contest. We decided to make an eco-friendly 'green' hat.

Halfway through the production of this hat, we received some unexpected help in the form of Bawa and Dinesh (of the Bawa and Dinesh fame)! Once they were done raiding the refrigerator and pillow-fighting with Urvi, they were made to sit in in one place and paint...carrots!

The Go-Green Wizards modelling our unfinished hat!

You can probably see some of the carrots on the table :)

And Ta-Da! This is the final look...


I am the Go-Green witch and this is my Go-Green Witch hat. Made with 100% recycled materials!

And guess what? This hat won first prize:)!! YIPPPEEEEE!!

Saturday, November 12, 2011

An Award and a Sleep-Over

Some weeks ago, we received a very exciting news: K was this year's recipient of the prestigious Hillel Einhorn New Investigator award, given by the Society of Judgment and Decision Making! Past recipients have been stalwarts of social science research, like George Loewenstein (CMU), Eldar Shafir (Princeton) and Dan Ariely (MIT/Duke). This is the first time the award has reached the Indian shores...so yes, it is a pretty big deal :)

Here is an excerpt from the congratulatory email from the Chair of the Awards Committee:

Dear Kanchan,

On behalf of the Hillel Einhorn New Investigator Award selection committee, I am delighted to tell you that you have been selected as this year's winner! You should know that we had a record number of submissions this year and that the committee felt that the quality was exceptionally high. We judged your paper to be "the best of the best".

So, last weekend K was at Seattle collecting the award and presenting his paper.

Meanwhile, Urvi and I made our own plans for the weekend!

She had been wanting to call her friend Devika over for a sleepover, and this was the perfect time for one.


We stayed up late, ate pizza, watched Mary Poppins and Sound of Music for the hundredth time and played Draw Out...Well it was meant to be a Stay-up-over'!

We decided that even though we thoroughly enjoyed our girl-time together, we did kinda miss being ignored by the man in our lives :)